believe

When we human found something that we love dearly and believe in it, we will usually hold it to the highest degree. We live and die for it and wholeheartedly keep it close within our heart so that it can never go away. During this phase of our life, the thing that we called animal instinct plays a pivotal role in making sure that our love stays as it is.

But we human are created with all the flaws of life. We are not perfect in so many ways and so often we find ourselves to be a careless and forgetful soul. We took things way too easy and foolishly let our guards down. Time and time again we came across stories of someone who lost his or her love and suffered because of it. Maybe in between those stories some of us found out that they are actually part of the stories.

Love is subjective but repeatedly we only managed to understand the true meaning of love once we lost it. In other words we only understand or feel the real meaning of love when everything seems too late to notice. Hence, that is why we can see millions of hearts get broken everyday because of it. Simply because of those flaws.

Escapism is a familiar term human embrace in time of sufferings. We keen to put all the blames to someone or something rather than to put the burden onto our own shoulders. It is hard to find a living person who is willing to accept those burdens and let go of all the pathetic blaming game.

So in this matter, possibly what actually defines a great living soul is not something that he or she achieves in the future but rather how they achieve it. When we lose the love of our life, perhaps it is better to keep the love intact within our heart and not to throw it away wastefully. I say honour it! Honour the love and keep on believing it with the way we live our life afterwards. It doesn’t matter whether we lose it or not, what matter the most is that we know deep in our heart that we are capable of loving something wholeheartedly and it proves that we are indeed a human being. If God wills it, perhaps one day we can stop for a second and look back and smile as how those silly things have actually make us stronger and who knows that maybe we can even laugh when we finally realize that the love that we once thought we had lost it, is still with us and we are still believe. The proof that the love exists before and still is.

Life is not as simple as we thought it is. Many things flow not according to our plan whether we like it or not. That is why we have the terms such as Qada’ and Qadar, Tawakkal, destiny and all. It is simply a fact of life that God has laid upon us. It may have many reasons behind its creation but to us, whom have so little share of knowledge of life, it is suffice to know that those that were not went accordingly to our plan are just part of the test to determine the level of our maturity.

Therefore for those who lost someone or something dearly in his or her life be it lover, wife, husband, parents or pet, I would like to offer my condolences to you. I wish you all the love I could muster within me and I would like to say that please keep on believing it. Keep the feeling inside is like a treasure and so, honour it with dignity and respect. Honour it by living your life to its fullest.